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Punishments by parents, through physical or verbal violence, are for the child a model of aggressive behavior. If the child lives surrounded by this model, he is acquiring the habit of responding aggressively to conflictive situations.
When parents punish through physical or verbal violence, they become models of aggressive behavior for the child. When the child lives surrounded by aggressive models, he also acquires aggressive behaviors.
Punishment should be used in a rational way to improve the child's behavior and should not depend on our state of mind. You have to control yourself in order to control the child. Avoid applying punishment with yelling or fighting, because this indicates that our behavior is negative and vindictive, which will reinforce unacceptable behavior. If we teach children that to solve a conflict situation it is necessary to shout, we will not solve any problem.
Why do we have to yell at them to tell them not to yell? That way we won't solve anything. We will be walking in a circle, without moving forward. To apply a punishment, you have to listen to the child and try to be fair. Before applying the punishment, the child must be warned and advised in a firm and definitive way.
The type of punishment and the way in which the child is punished should not be disproportionate to the action committed or the age to avoid provoking strong emotional responses in the punished child. Reconciling punishment with a reinforcement of good behavior will allow the child to "think" about his behavior for the future and what he has done wrong to be punished.
When the child is older, help him develop his self-control skills, using punishment within a context of behavior modification.
Furthermore, some psychologists are supporters of apply educational consequences to childrenThat is, instead of using traditional and exclusive punishment, use methods so that they understand that their actions have consequences. For example, do not call them eight times to come to eat, if the second or third they do not come, we will understand that they do not want dinner and we will save the food until the next day and we will give them a yogurt or a glass of milk.
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